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Aspies Unite! Respecting the ‘A’ Word in Teen Talk

Hello, super dads of super cool Asperger’s teens! Today, we’re tiptoeing into a topic as delicate as handling a box of fireworks – why some of our Aspie teens might prefer not to be called autistic. So, grab your metaphorical hard hats, and let’s navigate this with the grace of a ballet dancer wearing gumboots.

Asperger’s vs Autism: Tomato, Tomahto?

First, let’s get our terms straight. Asperger’s is part of the autism spectrum, but for many, it feels like a distinct club. It’s like being a Star Wars fan vs. a Star Trek fan – both are cool, but don’t mix them up at a convention!

Respecting Their Identity: The Name Game

Why might some teens shy away from the ‘autistic’ label? It’s all about identity, my friends. Some teens see ‘Asperger’s’ as their personal brand, like choosing between being called Mike or Michael. It’s their call, and we should respect it like the last slice of pizza.

Language Matters: Words Are Powerful

The way we talk about Asperger’s can shape how our teens feel about themselves. It’s not about being politically correct; it’s about being personally respectful. It’s like choosing between saying ‘unique’ and ‘weird’ – words can build bridges or walls.

Navigating Social Waters: The Aspie Way

Our Aspie teens are navigating the choppy waters of social interaction. When they say, “I’m not autistic; I have Asperger’s,” they’re steering their social ship the way they see fit. Let’s be their supportive crew, not the annoying parrot on their shoulder.

In Their Shoes: Empathy Is Key

Imagine walking a mile in their shoes – or in this case, their brains. They’re figuring out who they are in a world that’s often as confusing as trying to assemble furniture without instructions. Our job? To provide the tools and the snacks.

Conclusion: Celebrate Their Individuality

In the end, it’s about celebrating our teens for who they are – unique, wonderful, and sometimes wonderfully stubborn. Whether they identify with Asperger’s or autism, they’re still the awesome teen you know and love.

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