Communicating with your Aspie child: A guide for Dads of Aspies

If you’re a dad of an Aspie kid, you know that communication can be a challenge. Aspie kids often have unique communication styles, and it can take some time and effort to figure out what works best for your child.

Here are some of the different communication methods that children with ASD use:

  • Verbal communication: Aspie kids can communicate verbally, but they may have difficulty with things like pragmatics (the social rules of language) and turn-taking. They may also speak in a monotone voice or use echolalia (repeating words or phrases that they’ve heard).
  • Non-verbal communication: Aspie kids may also communicate non-verbally, through gestures, facial expressions, eye contact, and body language. They may also use objects or pictures to communicate.
  • Augmentative and alternative communication (AAC): Some Aspie kids use AAC devices, such as picture boards or speech-generating devices, to communicate. AAC can be a great way to help Aspie kids express themselves, especially if they have difficulty with verbal communication.

Here are some tips for communicating with your Aspie child:

  • Be patient and understanding. It may take time for your child to learn and use new communication methods. Be patient and understanding, and don’t get frustrated if they don’t always communicate in the way that you expect.
  • Use visuals. Aspie kids often learn best visually. When you’re communicating with your child, use visuals such as pictures, objects, and videos to help them understand what you’re saying.
  • Be clear and concise. Avoid using figurative language or sarcasm, as Aspie kids may take these things literally. Be clear and concise in your communication, and avoid using too much jargon or technical language.
  • Give your child time to process. Aspie kids may need more time to process information and respond to questions. Give them the time they need to think about what they want to say.
  • Use AAC devices. If your child has difficulty with verbal communication, consider using an AAC device. AAC devices can help Aspie kids express themselves more effectively.

Here are some fun and engaging ways to communicate with your Aspie child:

  • Play games. Playing games is a great way to bond with your child and help them develop their communication skills. There are many games that are specifically designed for children with ASD, such as Social Thinking games and Pragmatic Language Activities.
  • Read books. Reading books is another great way to bond with your child and help them develop their communication skills. Choose books that are about topics that your child is interested in, and be sure to talk about the books with them afterwards.
  • Sing songs. Singing songs is a fun and engaging way to communicate with your child. It can also help them learn new vocabulary and develop their rhythm and rhyme skills.
  • Tell stories. Telling stories is a great way to share your imagination with your child and help them develop their listening skills. You can tell them stories about your own childhood, or you can make up your own stories.

Remember, the most important thing is to be patient, understanding, and supportive. With your help, your Aspie child can learn to communicate effectively and express themselves fully.

About the Author:
This post was brought to you by DOA.AU, the go-to hub for Aussie dads with Aspie kids. Our aim? To make the journey a tad easier, a heap more fun, and a whole lot more informed! Join our community for more tips, stories, and dad jokes that only we find funny. 😉🇦🇺

Note: Always consult with a professional when implementing new strategies or tools for your child.

Join In the Discussion

Visit our Talking Aspie page on FaceBook to ask any questions or to discuss this topic further.