Meal planning and preparation for families with ASD: A Dad’s Guide to Keeping Your Kitchen Calm and Your Family Fed

Meal planning and preparation can be a challenge for any family, but it can be especially difficult for families with children with autism spectrum disorder (ASD). Children with ASD may have food sensitivities, dietary restrictions, or sensory sensitivities that make it difficult for them to eat certain foods or textures. They may also have difficulty sitting at the table for long periods of time or eating in noisy or crowded environments.

But don’t worry, Dads. I’m here to help. Here are a few tips for meal planning and preparation for families with ASD:

  • Get your child involved. If your child is old enough, get them involved in meal planning and preparation. Let them help you choose recipes, make shopping lists, and even help you prepare the food. This will help them to feel more invested in the meal and make it more likely that they will eat it.
  • Keep it simple. Don’t try to cook elaborate meals that require a lot of time and effort. Instead, focus on simple recipes that are easy to prepare and that your child is likely to enjoy.
  • Make sure you have a variety of options. Children with ASD can be picky eaters, so it’s important to have a variety of foods to choose from. This will help to ensure that your child always has something they’re willing to eat.
  • Be prepared for meltdowns. Meltdowns are a normal part of life for many children with ASD. They can be triggered by a variety of factors, including changes in routine, sensory overload, and hunger. If your child has a meltdown during a meal, try to stay calm and supportive. Remove them from the triggering situation, if possible, and give them a chance to calm down.

Here are a few additional tips from a dad’s perspective:

  • Don’t be afraid to use shortcuts. There’s no shame in using frozen meals, pre-cut vegetables, or other convenience foods. Anything that makes meal planning and preparation easier is a good thing.
  • Don’t be afraid to ask for help. If you’re struggling to manage meal planning and preparation, talk to your partner, family, friends, or other caregivers. They may be able to help you with cooking, grocery shopping, or other tasks.
  • Remember that it’s okay to not be perfect. There will be times when you don’t have time to cook or when your child refuses to eat the food you’ve made. Don’t beat yourself up about it. Just order a pizza or make a grilled cheese sandwich. The most important thing is that your child is getting the nutrients they need.

And remember, Dads, you’re not alone. There are millions of parents of children with ASD, and we’re all in this together. So let’s support each other and laugh at ourselves along the way.


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